Approaching today’s modern dating scene can feel like climbing a mountain. But fear not, fellow adventurers, for I am here to give you some amazing tips to level up your approach game
1. Open Indirectly:
Your opening move and how you do it are crucial—it sets the tone for the entire conversation. If you are new to dating, then start with an indirect opener. An indirect opener is smooth and situational, making it seem like the conversation happened naturally. Whether it’s a witty comment or a playful observation, it is low pressure and get the conversation going.
Indirect openers allow for a smoother entry into the conversation, providing an opportunity to showcase your wit, intelligence, and charm. Be creative.
2. Dress for Your Niche:
Your clothes speak volumes before you even open your mouth. Dress to impress, but more importantly, dress to fit the environment. You want to look like you belong, whether you’re in a coffee shop, a bookstore, or a park. Follow some fashion blogs, get a sense of style, and make sure your wardrobe makes you look good.
You don’t have to be a fashion model but looking your best makes cold approach so much easier.
3. Location and Logistics:
Success in the day game is all timing and positioning. Be where the women are—busy streets, parks, cafes. If you’re in a very small town, you’re wasting your time. Move to a city or a bigger town where you have better odds.
4. Record Your Approaches:
Keep track of your progress. Use your phone to take notes on what worked and what didn’t. This isn’t just about numbers; it’s about improving your dating skills and learning from your mistakes. Learn from your failed approaches and improve them.
5. Join a Community:
Surround yourself with like-minded individuals who are looking to level up in dating. Join online forums, local meetups, or any VIP community where you can find support and motivation.
We have our own Kosmo Vip Skool Community for the same.
6. Embrace Push-Pull when flirting:
Seduction is a dance of attraction. Use the push-pull flirting and teasing to create desire and interest. Make her chase you a little—women love a challenge. Lines like “You’re so cute. Too bad you’re not my type” and ” You look like trouble ” create the chase women crave. Make the game fun for her.
8. Body Language & Tonality:
Your voice is a powerful tool. Avoid sounding needy or desperate. Talk to women the way you would talk to a friend—natural, relaxed, and engaging.
If you have an accent, take advantage of it. Some women go crazy for accents. Normal friendly banter mixed with playful teasing and flirting.
Good body language makes you 10 times more attractive to women. Women respond and feel to emotions and body language cues. Have good eye contact.
9. Power of Touch:
Physical contact is key to building sexual tension. Start with light touches and see how she responds. If she’s into it, gradually increase. Touching creates a connection that words alone can’t achieve. Ever had a girl press her body against yours? It felt good, right? Women also like being touched by men they’re attracted to. So don’t be shy about touching her.
10. Play the Numbers Game:
Dating is a numbers game. The more women you approach, the higher your chances of success. Embrace rejection as a learning experience and keep moving forward. Every “no” gets you closer to a “yes.” Remember, every rejection brings you one step closer to success, teaching valuable lessons and refining your approach and skills
Dating is just sales. You are the product.
Taking Action:
And here’s the key, my friend: you gotta take action, my friend. You can’t just sit on your ass and expect women to come flocking to you like moths to a flame. Hit the damn gym, revamp your wardrobe, and for the love of all that’s holy, learn how to groom yourself. It’s not rocket science, guys.
And go out and approach women. If you’re serious about leveling up your dating game, it’s time to take action. Invest in yourself. Looks do matter. So does your job, your choice of friends, your fashion sense, your hobbies, talents, and lifestyle. It all adds up to make you a complete package.
By taking action, meeting new women, learning to build social circles, having positive energy, and being the best you can be. You can easily have unlimited options in terms of dating and women.
And remember, this ain’t just about getting laid. It’s about being the best version of yourself. So, get out there, put in the work, and take no prisoners.
Now, get off your ass and start making those changes. If you need help, feel free to book a call with Kosmo and his coaches.